Now that it’s June, I’m seeing graduation gifts everywhere, and it’s made me think back to my own graduation from university many years ago. I didn’t have a lot of down time between graduating and starting my first job (and yes, I know I’m lucky to have graduated with a job waiting for me!), and I didn’t want to select an apartment in a hurry. So, I rented a basement apartment for the summer months, and then found my first real apartment over the course of the summer. I highly recommend this route for people looking to save some extra money up, or wanting to be sure they like where they are before they commit to a full year with something.
So – when September came, I moved into my first real apartment. And while I’d paid rent before, and moved before, there were definitely some costs that cropped up that I hadn’t considered before I had a place of my own.
1. Moving costs. I was extremely lucky in that my new job covered them. I’d never had to worry about them before – most places just came furnished and I moved the rest of my stuff by car. But here I took my stuff from parents as well as somethings they kindly lent me on long term loan (e.g. my dining room table).
2. Cleaning supplies. I was living across the street from a Zeller’s (for Americans, think Wal-Mart or Target), which was great, because when I got there, I realized I had nothing. No broom. No dustpan. No rags. Nothing at all. Not even a toilet brush.
3. Blinds. My new apartment did not supply blinds – you had to supply them. So, while I managed with old sheets tacked up over the windows for a while, I eventually had to break down and pay the money for blinds.
4. Laundry. Well, this one actually goes to Mr. Canuck Buck. He’d lived at home during college, and so when he got his first apartment, it was the first time he’d not lived at home at all. He was greatly shocked when he realized he’d have to pay for laundry.
5. Odds and ends. I’d realized that I’d need a couch, so I went practical and bought a futon – that way, it could double as a bed for overnight guests. What I didn’t think about was that some of those guests would actually expect sheets on it – so I had buy sheets. And they also seemed to need towels – so I had to pick up some of those. Etc. etc..
On the whole, I didn’t come off too badly – I came with a fairly good supply of second hand kitchen stuff, which helped cut down costs a lot, and my parents were willing to lend me things or find me things cheaply at garage sales (they get a lot of credit for me having any money sense at all).
So, if you’re looking for your first “real” place, do keep this list in mind when you’re figuring out everything you’ll need. If you can be prepared ahead of time, it’s much easier to find things cheaply or free, rather than running out and paying full price.
What did you suddenly realize you didn’t have or you’d have to pay for when you got your first place?


Well, I moved out in my first year of college, so when I was 18. My mom had a lot of old stuff in a few boxes for me – dishes, towels etc (from redecorating). The rest of it, my boyfriend either had, or I got from the dollar store.
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When I turned 15 my mom bought me an antique blanket box to use as a hope chest. Every year after that all presents from my parents went towards household items. When I left home I had enough to get started and that antique blanket box was my coffee table for many years.
Like Martine my parents helped out with a lot of practical gifts in the years leading to moving away for college. So there weren’t a whole lot of kitchen things I needed. Also I ended up living with roommates for many years before finally getting my own place. That way you can just share their stuff and if you’re lucky they pass off a lot of their possessions when they move. I’m not sure if I was really surprised at the expenses, but that is probably because of how I transitioned from college dorms, to roommates to living on my own.
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Daisy – It’s nice when Mom’s save you stuff! My Mom got all of my kitchen stuff from a coworker of hers that was moving away.
Martine – sounds like you have some smart and practical parents! I used an old trunk of my Mom’s to store blankets and also as a coffee table for a while.
MM – It’s helps if you can slowly build stuff up – via gifts or donations from people you’ve lived with.
I bought my first house at 18. My family helped me get it ready as far as little renos goes but I did all the maintenance after. I remember laying 3 yards of landscaping rock one weekend all by myself. I think doing things on your own is a great learning experience.
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18? Wow! I didn’t get there til 28. And yes, I agree you do learn things. We learned the hard way that landscape fabric does not keep weeds from coming up!
When I bought my first flat at around 20-21 my mum and dad donated some items or I simply purchased it at car boot sales ( garage sales) or new. I didn’t have much really just my clothes and anything small I’d collected along the way because I was in University for many years. It takes alot to get situated but if you have patience it doesn’t have to cost alot of money. Mr.CBB
Mr. CBB – Agreed, patience is the key – and organization! I picked things up here and there along the way as well, which helped.
I didn’t leave home until I was 22 and it was a pretty easy transition. One I really looked forward to. I moved to a city 2 hours away from my home. My father, my brother and a friend helped me move. I had my bed, a pull out sofa from my mother and some dishes. Oh, and an old TV that I got when I was 15. As well my parents gave me their old diner style kitchen table and chairs. Years later I realized that they had become a classic item and were worth a lot of money, but I didn’t have them anymore. Oh well…
TOD – sounds like you were pretty well set when you moved out. Sorry you got rid of some things that would have been worth money – one never knows these things at the time!
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I always feel like I live at Canadian Tire for a week after moving! There’s always new light bulbs, or the garbage can doesn’t fit and you need a new one, a bit of drawer liner, some felt pads to avoid scratches, specific cleaning product, new scrub brush…. and on and on.
When I moved in to my college apartment, I actually kept costs down. Now when I moved in to my apt with my hubby, costs crept up. Some of the stuff, i really wish we hadn’t even bought. But we were pressured to have those things because that’s what married ppl should do. Ughh…I hate when people say you should do this bc you are married.
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Hi – yeah, people are always full of good advice you don’t necessarily need!
You could have taught me some component today. Your write-up basically opened my eyes.