No. It doesn’t. It makes you a smart parent – who is wisely saving their money for stuff like education or awesome Lord of the Rings Lego kits (oh wait..that’s what my husband is buying himself :) ).

We don’t actually have kids, but I visited with a friend on the weekend who recently had her first child. I was telling her how most of the toys I have for my niece at my house are actually hand me downs from another niece, or were bought at a garage sale. Yes, I’m a cheap aunt. I help chip in for shoes on occasion and put money towards her education. Much better use than wasting it on new toys. :)

Anyways, she seemed greatly relieved to hear this and fessed up that she’d bought her daughter clothes at Value Village. And then asked if this made her a bad parent!  She’s finding out the hard way that motherhood comes with a lot of judgement, and another friend of hers told her she’d never let her kids wear second hand stuff.

WOW! I just think that’s absolutely crazy. I know I grew up wearing hand me downs. Heck, if any of my friends were the same size as me, I’d take hand me downs now. But I’m taller than all of them, so that’s never been an option.

I guess this is one of the reasons that people are so much in debt now. My friend felt badly that they could afford to buy her new clothes – but bought them at Value Village. I pointed out that she was being smart – her daughter would outgrow them quickly, and it was silly to buy them new. I pointed out my niece wears hand me downs (really nice ones, mind you – my brother has some well off friends!) and my parents buy her things at Once Upon a Child.

I don’t know. I guess I just grew up with hand me downs and thought they were normal. Guess I’m just out of the loop.

How do you guys feel about this? Do you buy second hand clothes for yourself or your kids?

23. March 2012 · 2 comments · Categories: Clothing · Tags:

This is part 5 of a 5 part series on saving money on clothes. If you haven’t already read them, please check out part 1 on shopping in your own closet, part 2 on having a clothing swap, part 3 on shopping at thrift shops, and part 4 on shopping at discount department stores

Now we come to the most expensive option – shopping at “regular” stores. This can still be a frugal option – the thing is, you have to make sure you catch the sales!

The thing I find strange about stores is that they stock everything ahead of the season. For example – you can buy a lawnmower in March, but not a shovel. With the amazing weather we’re having right now, I don’t really need a shovel right now. However, one winter when I did need one in March, not being able to find one was really frustrating!

So – the key to find stuff on sale is actually shop in the season you need it – a bit later in the season if you can. I picked up deeply discounted shirts last summer (to go with the great skirts I got a Winners).

My thing is – I’m never organized enough to buy clothes ahead of the time I need them – I only realize I need them once the weather changes and I realize I don’t have anything that fits. :) So – in this case, procrastination actually is your friend!

What’s the best thing you’ve ever gotten on sale?

 

22. March 2012 · 2 comments · Categories: Clothing

This is part 4 of a 5 part series on saving money on clothes. If you haven’t already read them, please check out part 1 on shopping in your own closet, part 2 on having a clothing swap and part 3 on shopping at thrift shops.

I’ll admit it. I love Winners. I love the crazy stuff you can find there, and I love the fact that it can change from day to day and you never know what you’ll find there. The most recent thing I found at Winners was something that purported to be an exercise suit – if you put it on while you exercised you’d burn way more calories. Frankly, I think it looked like the model had basically put a garbage bag on, but that’s just me.

I know I’m not alone in my love of Winners – there are 2 of them within a 10 minute walk from me at work, and both of them are packed over the lunch hour (and I’ll be honest – it’s mostly women). They do a pretty brisk business. I think on the whole their prices are pretty good (I picked up 3 skirts there last summer for a total of 80 dollars), but shopping at Winners is definitely not for the faint of heart. Things are sorted to a certain extent by size and by type, but it can be overwhelming to look through a rack of things tightly crammed in together. And frankly – some of the stuff they stock is quite hideous and I really don’t know who’d buy it.

Another option is Joe Fresh. I have yet to buy anything there (I was trending towards the larger sizes for a while, and I’m not sure if Joe Fresh stocks those), but I do recall admiring a co-workers skirt last year and she said it was Joe Fresh. So it’s on my to do list now that I’ve managed to shrink down a bit.

I gotta admit – I’m not huge on Wal-Mart or Zellers for clothes – although I did find a good bathing suit at Zellers last year and picked up a few belts there as well (although they are starting to umm..flake  bit).  I don’t have kids, so I can’t comment on whether they are a good place to shop for kid’s clothes, but I generally don’t like how their clothing looks, even if the prices are cheap.

Have I missed any good stores? What’s been your best discount department store purchase?

 

This is part 3 of a 5 part series on saving money on clothes. If you haven’t already read them, please check out part 1 on shopping in your own closet and part 2 on having a clothing swap.

I have to admit, I haven’t always been a big thrift shop person. I don’t know if it was pride or just laziness (generally, I only buy clothes when someone drags me out and forces me to). Or I just didn’t think of it. I’m really not sure. That all changed when Mr. Canuck Buck’s Aunt took me out shopping.

She *loves* thrift stores.  I swear the clerks actually recognize her when she shows up. She knows where to find the stuff that just came in, and how to quickly spot if anything has a serious flaw in it.

The first time I went shopping with her, I picked up 2 pairs of dress pants at no more than 10 dollars a pair. That’s a lot less than they would have cost me in the store new. And they were in perfectly good shape. No one has ever pointed at me and gone “Hey, nice thrift store pants!”  Not yet, anyways..I also picked up a lovely dress for my niece for less than 8 bucks.

The second time I needed a decent winter coat. I got a really nice one for 40 dollars. Now – that may seem high for a thrift store, but I’m happy to support a good cause (the Salvation Army in this case). And it’s a good, warm coat. Which is a must in a Canadian winter (although not at the moment – it’s crazy warm out!). I also picked up a few things for a friend’s new baby – one shirt still had the tags on it!

So, I highly recommend thrift stores. Your main choices in Canada are Goodwill, Value Village, and the Salvation Army. There are lots of ways to save extra at these places:

- The Salvation Army offers coupons and senior’s discount every day.

- Value Village offers a Super Savers Club

- Goodwill has special events. There’s a “Friday Fever” coming up this week!

What’s your best thrift store find? Mine isn’t that recent  – the best I ever got was a great “Catholic schoolgirl” outfit I wore many years ago for Halloween.

20. March 2012 · 4 comments · Categories: Clothing

This is part 2 in a 5 part series on how to save money on clothes. If you haven’t already done so, please check out part 1 of 5: Saving money on clothes by “shopping” in your own closet.

If you can’t find anything in your own house you can use to expand your wardrobe without going shopping, maybe you can find it in someone else’s! Clothing swaps are a great way to get rid of things you no longer want or need, and hopefully take home some new items.

With luck, you’ll have a rich friend who is exactly your size, and gets rid of her clothes after wearing them a few times. In reality though, you may not know a lot of people who are your size. I’m fairly tall, so I’ve never been able to get clothes from any of my friends. I have, however, been able to get shoes from a few people who no longer wanted them, including some seriously awesome new high boots. The key to a successful clothing swap is to try to include as many people as possible – the more people that comes, the more likely you are to find someone with clothes you can use.

I just read an article about a “Fashion Week” clothing swap. If you’re someone who likes high end clothes, then this kind of thing can be fantastic! For every item you donate, you get a “chit” that’s redeemable for another item.

Have you ever participated in a clothing swap? What’s the best item you’ve ever gotten for free from someone else?

I’ve decided to do a 5 part series this week on how to save money on clothes.  I’m going to range from the cheapest and easiest options, to the more expensive options, that cover how to wisely part with your hard earned bucks.

The quickest and easiest way to save money on clothes is just to go shopping in your own closet. Most people own far more clothes than they actually use, and a lot of them just don’t get worn because you’ve forgotten about them, or they’re hidden in the back of a closet or a box somewhere.

In my case, I’ve been optimistic and saved my clothes over the years as I have gained weight (sigh..). I have finally started kicking myself into gear and lost a decent amount of weight.  When it got to the point my largest pants were starting to fall off me, I simply brought out the box of clothes I’d saved, and pulled out smaller pairs of pants. I did the same thing when I went down another size. If I go any further though, I’ll have to go out and buy something (cheaply, mind you!).

Reusing older clothes isn’t always a viable option – I have some dresses I’ve saved as well, and they fit again, but I’m not sure they’re still..flattering on me. I think I’ll try to lose a little more weight and see how they fit then.

So -next time you’re thinking “Wow, I really need X item”, try going through your closets, drawers, and boxes, and see if you already have it. It’ll be a great exercise in spring cleaning as well.

Happy hunting!  What’s the best piece of clothing you’ve ever “found” that you already owned?